The Internet today allows us to learn many things about the
world we live in and allows us imagine how cultures look and act in distant
countries. Furthermore, it could very well show the embodiment of the values
that are most important to us.
When it comes to humans and males more specifically, a hot
topic to talk about is the subject of sex on the Internet. I highly agree with
the idea that pornography and sex trafficking on the Internet is shaping the
embodiment of how women appear. Not only is media showing females how they
“should” look but the Internet has also done what the real world have done in
making women valued largely by their appearance. While any sane or normal
person will conclude that sex trafficking is a horrific and mad idea,
regulation in such industries can be complicated and hard to tackle. Many of
these Organizations, if you want to call them that, which participate in these
industries, are largely in unregulated countries that can be hard to be
shutdown. Furthermore, another issue arises when it comes to the Internet and
that is how far do governments restrict the content that consumers are allowed
to see.
While men are currently the prime users of Internet they
only help to allow the sex industry to drive how individuals are embodied.
Hawthorns article stats on consumers were quite shocking to me; her resources
found that the recorded proportion of buyers of women over the internet are 90%
male, 70% of which are living in the US, and 70% between the ages of 18 and 40.
While the age range is not surprising to me, the percentage of US consumers is.
I have always thought of “mail order brides” as a thing you
might see in movies. However, Hawthorn goes on to explain how consumers in this
industry are pitched on the women that they are selling. I think the biggest
fail in embodiment of actual real women these sites pose is the way they
apparently explain there brides-for-sale. They explain that these women as
pleasers and don’t have unreasonable expectations. To me it’s as if you are
buying a puppet that has been suppressed into a life of selfless personal
identity, and the men who partake in this think of them-selves as the puppet
master. This goes against the idea of the Internet being a place to express and
discover yourself, and while this may be true if you’re a male online it
certainly does not appear to be the case for women.
Women will continue to be embodied with sexual exploitation
on the Internet if the consumers, being men, continue to let these industries
have all the power. We as consumers must demand respect from these industries
if we are ever to obtain a truly free and clear minded Internet. While I believe
we should and always will value beauty in the human-race, we must not do so
with a blind eye, to the point where our filtered values that we see on
Internet become our real life ones.


